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Cross-post from tumblr.



Mean Girls 2023 compared to Mean Girls 2004

This isn't a big write-up, because I'm tired, but since I finally watched the musical movie on a plane, it keeps creeping back into my head.

There are three main things about it that keep poking at me to remind me that they're remarkable.

I'm speaking as somebody who was 13 in 2004 and the peak age for Mean Girls to be fascinating, horrifying, and aspirational (aesthetically if not morally lol). Now, I am a teacher who has spent a couple years teaching in American middle and high schools.

The Set

I keep staring at the school set when I look at clips of this movie. I've only sat through watching it once on the plane, but I am just absolutely transfixed with how much more realistic the school looks. Back in 2004, movies looked like movies. The fourth wall was stronger. People didn't have cameras on their phones and make content out of their lives.

I don't know as much as I'd like about filmmaking and the technical terms, but I just am surprised about how a movie released in 2004 has such broader angles, when some films weren't even embracing 16:9 ratio yet, than a movie released in 2023. Again, I think this goes back to the way that, in order for a "teen movie" to have any hope of reaching the teen audience of today and not just nostalgic millennials, they needed to try and frame it in a way that felt genuine to the late Gen Z kids in high school, the Gen Alpha kids who are coming up, and the Gen Z kids who recently finished high school. All of those kids grew up in a world where they were making tiktoks and knew what ring lights were before they were literate.

And it's just surprising and novel to me that, as a side effect of the higher tech reality of "teens today," the set they use in the new Mean Girls movie is so much more lived-in and real than something plastic and larger than life -- a little better and shinier -- that would have always been used in the teen movies of my era. By and large, I feel like I don't hear of that many "teen movies" being made these days. The market has shifted such that unless they're caught in the demographic of one of the big franchises, there's no point making a movie like Mean Girls or Drive Me Crazy or Never Been Kissed or 10 Things I Hate About You or any of the others I can think of. They watch stuff on their phones or on streaming services. They don't need to go anywhere for algorithms that cater to their tastes or push whatever cultural moment is going viral at the moment. And so, because of this, the school set seems to be an actual school that was being used in real life just seconds ago.

I purposefully didn't spend a lot of time googling about the actual production before writing this, so feel free to shout of any trivia you know about it, because I wanted to express my wonderment and presumptions about it before going back and googling around since this is a random background thought that's been in my head.

In the above clip, I am struck by how the cafeteria is so narrow compared to the one in the original movie. It is a functional reality of whatever building they're in. I also feel like I could just step into it, having occasionally cut into the lunch line as a teacher in the past few years because I was starved for something warm and not wet. The way the line is set up to double back on itself and stuff. The tables. The fact that the posters on the walls look sometimes on glossy paper but, at other times, printed straight from a standard printer on matte paper. There's even a random truck that drives by in the background in such a way that it makes me wonder if it was intentional or if there was just normal suburban traffic happening around the school or if something else was going on other than filming in another part of the school that was being used as a set.

When it moves to Ms. Norbury's class, the classroom itself just looks so much more lived in. I find it difficult to believe that it's even entirely set dressing.

I would be surprised to find out that this wasn't a school they requested be left as-is to use for shooting with a handful of posters altered or added for the aesthetic (such as the Vote for Pedro joke poster).

I feel like this is an artistic choice that makes the world feel more real and "smaller" because it feels more authentic to the teen experience of today. They know what a high school looks like more intimately and concretely than people of my generation did, because they've taken pictures and filmed in every part of one -- likely especially the cafeteria areas.

The Scope of Teen Life

The fact that teenagers document their entire lives with easy-access picture and video to share it online and that their social town squares are, as I understand it, tiktok and snapchat and such, changes a lot in terms of what the movie can suggest is a desirable or frightening or even realistically imitated teen experience. In 2004, every young teenager in the mainstream at least went through a phase of daydreaming about when they would be old enough to "go to the club." Now, most teenagers could not care less if they ever get to go into that kind of loud, packed social atmosphere.

The fashions have also changed as a result. Of course, if a Gen Z person goes to a club, what they want to wear is different for a multitude of reasons, but in the original Mean Girls movie, the girls were always wrapped in these tiny mini dresses or even straight up lingerie in their social encounters. Being honest, I cannot actually imagine a world in which anyone was frequently and as a matter of course* letting their teen daughters out of the house in only fancy lingerie, but it was an exaggeration upon the truth of what could be expected in high school.

(*In my hometown, there absolutely was a parent-endorsed scene of teenage party debauchery, but that's neither here nor there. I'm just saying I know these things did happen, but they weren't normal.)

But a teenager of 2004 would daydream about ape a reality in which some form of that aesthetic might make it into their lives, within the constraints of what actual reality would let them have. They couldn't be in the MTV version of things, but they could do their best to cobble it together with their real mall finds.

On the other hand, there's far less separation now between the reality the new movie tries to present, though it certainly has its heightened and exaggerated reality of being a musical. But it feels more like Crazy Ex-Girlfriend where there is a conceit that the musical sequences are happening in someone's (usually Cady's) imagination or they are an expression of a mood which then snaps back to much more realistic acting.

In particular, the performance by Renee Rapp as Regina George is what made this movie anything more than a fleeting in the fever dream of 14 hour flight to me. I love her singing voice, but more than that, when she switches to her 'normal acting' mode, she actually acts like some of the teenagers I've observed from the perspective of a 20 to 30-something teacher. There is one student in particular I had a couple of years ago who behaved in much the same way to the point that it's a bit haunting.

The actresses are still in their 20s, as were the original Mean Girls cast, but the way they are dressed and the lack of an obsession with thinness among all the characters really contributes to them feeling more believably like teenagers and not just dolls playing the parts of teenagers.

I think this realism being stronger in a musical than the original film feels like a product of the times.

 


Relative Modesty in Teens

Which leads me to the final thing I already touched upon above. At the Halloween party, most of the students relatively body-covering costumes, even where they're supposed to be sexy for a teenager.

It's probably a good thing in the zeitgeist overall, but it's just really interesting to me when one considers the frequent observations that even while many Gen Z people are more socially progressive in their attitudes, they are more conservative in their dress.

While these are adults playing teenagers for the most part, there is a sense I notice among the students I've taught in the last 4 years or so that they value being minors and having certain parts of them that shouldn't be seen by others or adults. There have been plenty of times I've had to tell a girl that, unfortunately, she is not allowed to wear a crop-top at school without an opaque layer covering her abdomen entirely, defeating the purpose, but overall the aesthetic is a lot less "please think I'm sexy on adult terms."

I had a conversation with a friend earlier about how the starlets of the early 2000s being aged-out Disney-made stars, coupled with the degree of separation that existed between the average person and commercial media product that has been eroded over the past couple of decades, made it so that teen girls of my generation sought the end of their childhoods to be accelerated. However, the teens of today often find that they have to carve this out for themselves.

I've also seen discussions about how there used to be entire stores dedicated to the preteen girl stage of life. The Claire's of the world have shrunk, if not disappeared, and Limited Too went from being an expensive, flashy mall experience I only had once around age 11 to being a plastic jewelry brand at Walmart.

I've seen this framed as the adults and market forces in the world trying to hypersexualize minors, and while I think there is a point in that argument to be had, my observations about what this version of Mean Girls tried to do aesthetically makes me feel like there's an extent to which that wave has crested. The cultural real estate that teenagers have to be a separate category (which has only really existed since the 1950s as a marketing tactic but which is valuable for slower development in the present age) is much smaller scale now. But that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It just exists largely online. However, the internet is not like it was when I was a teenager, where it largely felt like a different "place" altogether with different rules. Rather, it's like an augmented reality overlay to the real lives that teenagers are living. And even if big business doesn't find that it's very useful to have separate teen and preteen categories anymore, they are still consuming and buying and making in their own ways, insisting that they don't want to be seen except on their terms, even if they are in some ways trapped by other forces than those that tended to lure the girls of my age to wish that they would no longer be perceived as "other" and "younger." Instead, this generation seems to want to be perceived as "other" more often, rather than just being lumped in with everything around them.



prixmium: (skyeward - untidy)
Work for the first week back with the students has overall been... okay.

I often update this journal about real life when I'm complaining. Really, it's actually kind of nice to feel like my "improve upon" list is manageable and my "that went reasonably okay" list is longer. My third period class are assfaces quite a lot of the time in the won't ever shut up sense. My sixth period have a bit of that. They're slightly more respectful but extremely lazy in aggregate. My fifth period I'm overall really proud of, but there are like three students who are having some silent-in-front-of-me drama that centers around one of them who seems to have some pretty serious social issues that are somewhat unclear if they're ND or not. In any case, I'm doing my best for them, but it's hard to be on the absolute top of my game all day long. Still gotta learn to juggle the plates, I guess.

While I'm at work, I'm content except for momentary spikes in wanting to tell some specific students to shut up and stop trying to manipulate me out of giving them their education to the best of my ability.

Scares me how much some of the obviously most intelligent kids absolutely resent things that require them to think.

And I feel like while this job could be a good fit for another year or two - if it's even offered to me - the fact that I'll be able to finally apply to advance my license makes me start looking at other options. Even if the school isn't bad, the rental opportunities here suck (1 BR starts at $1400 for suburban bullshit living with nothing but some pretty scenery and moving to where they actually HAVE studios at ALL increases my commute and still doesn't help with the cost that much). I definitely get the sense my current living situation is only going to last through May.

So starting to do EFL again in the fall is looking increasingly attractive. I really want to go back to Japan in general, but I worry that I'm just remembering a time shortly before the pandemic and when I was still technically in my 20s. If they don't offer me my job back for the fall, that's the decision made pretty much, but if I'm put in the position to choose, I'm terrified of jumping out of having a salary to something that's very seasonal. However, the exit strategy would be that once I get my visa and adjust a little, I would be able to use my license to get an international school job, which would have much of the same expectations as my current job with less-and-different bullshit for the payoff.

There are a couple of writing challenges I'm thinking of doing. I keep telling myself that right now I don't need to sign up for any exchanges or commitment-based things. It does make me DO something, but I cut the last two SO close and that was with the winter break to help. However, there's a "Year of the OTP" thing I'm thinking about using very loosely to write about different ships because I don't have just one OTP. Some of the prompts seem good, though. I'll investigate a bit more tomorrow and if I decide to do it, copy it here for my reference.
prixmium: stonehenge in sunlight (stonehenge in sunlight)
I am checking in here. Every time I think I ought to post something that isn't a fairly heavy life update, I get distracted. I feel like a lot happens at once but nothing happens at all.

For the past several weeks, I have been trying to get approved to do online EFL teaching, but I keep not quite reaching the benchmark for a live practice lesson. I haven't even tried this week, though I'm hoping to schedule trying again maybe on Monday. I just hope they don't give up on me and deactivate my account.

With the protracted election suspense going on, it has just been one more weight to carry on top of the other things I carry around with me.

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prixmium: (tardis)
I should be asleep already and am not sure why I'm not except that I get strangely possessive of pain-free consciousness once a major headache passes. This may not be the most coherent post ever, but I would like to make a habit of coming here during these trying times.

Before the pandemic began to have an impact on local scheduling or anyone had really begun to process that it would have a nationwide impact in the US (because American exceptionalism), I was scheduled to do an interim teaching position from April 11th until May 13th. I worked for five days before the school let out in an effort to avoid large gatherings, etc. Tennessee trailed behind Virginia for about a week and used much looser language about it, but it eventually happened.

I got a text this morning that said that rather than possibly reopening on April 1 that we are now looking at April 27 as the earliest the schools might re-open.

Unfortunately, as a result of my being a substitute teacher who hadn't been in the interim position long enough for the teacher to run out of sick days, this basically means I get no income for the month of April at all. And I get it. I'm just exhausted with this happening over and over. And it has happened over and over to me.

And while I am somber about the impact of it on the planet as a whole and am blessed in a lot of ways, I guess what strikes me the most is how little this is any different from the same spring I had last year. Last year my father was healing from surgery, I was firming up plans to go to Japan, and I at least had a job. But before that I'd spent weeks at home and unemployed, too.

I'm feeling strangely homesick for Japan, though with things the way they are now, I doubt anyone is going anywhere for a long time yet. I want to be safe, and I want to do the right thing for other people. I just also don't really know what I am going to do about my credit card bill next month.

One thing about being home with my parents during this time that is sort of maddening is that we cannot go a day without several hours of CNN piping into the house. Thankfully my parents are reasonable enough to realize that Fox is nothing but a propaganda machine, so when my dad got a small digital cable package he got CNN instead, but they're both conservative people for the most part. It drives me crazy in many ways, but I know they're well-meaning. But damn, if the red scare doesn't have an impact to this very day. Some days my father will admit that Bernie Sanders might be the candidate who is best for my future, but between the "pro-life" issue and the fact that my parents have been taught all their lives that both communism and socialism are great evils, there is just no way they can actually support me not suffering under this financial weight forever and ever and ever and ever, as if Republicans give a damn about life, unborn or otherwise.

One of my friends recently mentioned that she felt like she might have to do like modern American ancestors' did and immigrate somewhere else to have any opportunity in life. And while she and I often have clashing lifestyle opinions, this particular phrase has really stuck with me lately. But who in the world even wants us [Americans who can't figure it out in our own country]?

The answer is, of course, SEA as English teachers if the world ever opens up again, I guess.

But yeah. My mother and I both just live in quarantine.

My mom literally lives a self-imposed quarantine.

And I just... go to work. Where I have no coworker friends who miss me right now or anything because I am always a temp. All I have here is my parents. And I don't know what to do, eventually, if I ever get the chance to decide again.

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